Ready for LASTING LOVE?
Tired of being single?
It's not you.
It's Your Technique!
A practical path toward lasting love for single men and women who are ready for something real.
If you’ve ever thought:
- “It’s not fair. It shouldn’t be this way. I do everything right, but the people I want never notice me.”
- “I fear settling, but I also fear being alone.
- “I don’t understand why others have what I want, but it remains out of reach for me. What am I doing wrong?”
You are not alone!
Many singles feel exhausted by dating, frustrated by missed connections, and confused about why relationships don’t seem to move forward even when they are trying hard, staying hopeful, and holding on to their standards.
Meet Emily
Emily was 35, never married, attractive, educated, and fun-loving, but dating had left her discouraged.
She didn’t think she was overly picky, and she didn’t want to lower her standards. She preferred to hold out for the quality of men she desired. But now that she was in her 30s, while some men responded, none of her relationships had progressed beyond a handful of dates.
At times, she felt tempted to blame men for being shallow or superficial, but that only made her feel powerless and resentful.
She also realized that trust issues from her past were affecting how she showed up in dating.
When Emily reached out to me, Alisa Goodwin Snell, for help, she hoped the answer might be that nothing was wrong with her — only that her dating technique needed refining.
That turned out to be the beginning of real change.
What Changed
As Emily gained a better understanding of attraction, confidence, and communication, she began making a few simple but meaningful adjustments.
She started dating more confidently and became more playful.
She enjoyed the process more and felt that each interaction increased her ability to connect.
And over time, she found the kind of relationship she had been hoping for.
Her story is a reminder that dating frustration does not always mean you are failing. Sometimes it means you need a clearer strategy, better tools, and more confidence in how to show up.
For Singles Who Feel Stuck
If you are tired of being single, frustrated by the opposite sex, or confused about what you are doing wrong, this book was created with you in mind.
Maybe you’ve done your best and still haven’t found the relationship you want.
Maybe you’re afraid of settling, but also tired of waiting.
Or maybe you’re starting over after an abusive, manipulative, dishonest, or unfaithful relationship or divorce, carrying the anxiety and hurt that come with that experience.
Whether you are new to dating or worn out by years of disappointment, there is still hope.
To Get Started
- You need only buy a book, Single? It's Not You. It's Your Technique! — for men or for women.
- Access the book's FREE companion course designed to support your lasting-love journey with instructive audio, videos, self-tests, and motivational challenges.
- $21.97 for the book is your only required investment.
- Your companion course is free.
- It’s a simple first step toward better dating outcomes.
Start Here Today
To begin, get your copy of Single? It’s Not You. It’s Your Technique — for men or for women — and then access the free companion course.
If you are ready for a more hopeful, practical, and empowering approach to dating, this is where you start.
Why trust me?
I bring 30 years of experience, including 17 years as a marriage and family therapist and 20 years as a dating coach.
My life, like that of many singles, did not progress as I had planned, which is why I became passionate about singles and their dating struggles and have dedicated my life to them. After a short marriage and divorce in my twenties, my happy ending (with Eric and my kids) began over twenty years ago.
I know the value of a happy marriage and family life. I have helped thousands of singles and couples create it, and you can experience it, too!
Alisa Goodwin Snell
Author of multiple books, including Single? It's Not You. It's Your Technique! for men and women.
“A wealth of candid pointers.” — BookLife review
“Useful insights” for “the reluctant dater, the socially awkward newcomer, or the recently divorced person.” — Kirkus Reviews
To Get Started
- BUY Single? It's Not You. It's Your Technique! — for men or for women.


- Access the book's FREE companion course designed to support your lasting-love journey with instructive audio, videos, self-tests, and motivational challenges.
- $21.97 for the book is your only required investment.
- Your companion course is free.
- It’s a simple first step toward better dating outcomes.
Start Here Today
To begin, get your copy of Single? It’s Not You. It’s Your Technique — for men or for women — and then access the free companion course.
If you are ready for a more hopeful, practical, and empowering approach to dating, this is where you start.
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