• can't get the attention of those they want to date
• rarely get excited about those they meet
• struggle to get repeat dates
• don't know where to meet singles

• are sick of dating apps
• want to meet like-minded individuals
• are working professionals
• need to balance dating and parenting

• are on the autism spectrum
• don't date much
• suffer from shyness or social anxiety
• experience frequent rejection
• don't know how to date

• experience frequent and unresolved conflict
• fear getting into toxic, abusive, manipulative, unfaithful, or addicted relationships
• want to identify the red flags in three dates or less

• aren't feeling what they think they should
• can't commit
• experience excessive doubts
• worry about making a mistake
• need better communication and conflict resolution skills

• are between 20 years old and 70 years young
• want to date others of their faith
• need help with long-distance relationships
• are recovering from grief, divorce, or trauma and need to know how to date again

• Start conversations that make others want you more.
• Get the attention and investment of those you desire. 
• Create winning dating apps and social media profiles.
• Get more investment, phone calls, and dates.
• Give and receive more numbers.
• Get more investment, phone calls, and dates.
• Handle rejection so well that they respect you more, reconsider, and look forward to seeing you again.
• Flirt and pursue while looking great and making others feel great, too.
• Increase your confidence, chemistry, and desirability through simple touch and affection.
• Master techniques for stronger, deeper, and more natural connections.
• Maintain the playfulness and positivity while confidently navigating awkward questions and conversations.
• Understand anxious and avoidant attachment triggers and respond in secure and inviting ways. 
• Create and maintain secure attachment behaviors that keep you both engaged, happy, and passionate in the relationship.
• Identify liars, cheaters, manipulators, and beaters in 3 dates or less.
• Experience more playful and passionate chemistry while mutually respecting each other's values and needs.   
• Maintain a highly positive, supportive, and engaging connection that lasts a lifetime (during both the good and hard times).
• Create a successful conflict style that de-escalates tension with effective repair attempts, fair fighting rules, and a focus on what's going right (not wrong).
• Manage mood swings, triggers, insecurities, and anxiety with more resilience, hope, assertiveness, and mutual respect.
• Set clear boundaries that solicit connection and empathy rather than defensiveness.
• Discover the hidden signs you are pushing others away and how to invite better connections.
• Make others want you more by taking the pressure off and increasing simple touch.
• Discover why you don't feel what you should and how to feel passionate,  confident, and more committed again. 
• Avoid settling! Identify what you need and want in a partner and relationship to be happy now and for a lifetime. 
• Confidently overcome the challenges of dating with kids, issues with exes, economic differences, and long-distance dating.
• Date and build relationships that support your religion, values, and spiritual needs.
• Offer win/win solutions that support both the male and female psychology. 

In addition to the below reviews, check out our verified reviews and 4.9 STAR ratings.

POWERFUL INFORMATION

"Alisa is easy to talk to and approachable. She sees what's happening on a substantive level. She doesn't give gimmicky, two-dimensional advice. Instead, she was able to identify my hang-ups and give very valuable information/resources. She's pragmatic and down to earth. I highly recommend her." 

Sara, Salt Lake City

SO GRATEFUL

"Don't wait any longer. Beyond expectations! Alisa instantly put me at ease despite my fears. Warm, genuine, empathetic, insightful, and experienced. The abundance of materials she makes available, her kindness, and the time she spends make every penny worth it."  

C.F.

IT REALLY WORKS!

"Alisa is amazing! She gives you homework, follows up, and cares. That's exactly why I'm in the relationship I am today, and with a more secure attachment than I could have dreamed of."  

A.B., Hawaii

FIVE STARS 

"In the few weeks I have been working with Alisa, I have had more dates in one week than ever before. I feel empowered and supported in finding a good man and weeding out any others. My hope and confidence are restored in the dating process and the opportunity for marriage."  

Katherine, San Diego

RELATIONSHIP BREAKTHROUGH FOR ME 

"After ten years of relationships (that all seemed to fizzle at four to five months), I felt like I was lying to myself to say it was just because it wasn't right. So I spent a lot of time and money on counselors and coaches and was still unsatisfied with their vague solutions. After one visit to Alisa, I had more insight into what I needed to change than all the others combined. Now, I'm in a long-term relationship. It's miraculously still going strong." 

E.S., Texas

THAT WAS QUICK! 

"I just wanted to let you know that I’ve been fortunate to move into an exclusive relationship that feels right and looks very promising." 

J.S., Salt Lake City

INSPIRING! 

"The Lasting Love Academy helped me to assert my needs and feelings in a way that appeared confident and attractive (rather than desperate and needy). In return, I got more respect, attention, dates, and commitment."  

Karen, Chicago

FEAR OF MISSING OUT! 

"My boyfriend was a great guy, but I still felt attracted to other men and worried I might find someone better. Alisa helped me to recognize the fears and thinking errors that were haunting me and gave me the skills to confront and resolve them. I didn't feel pressure, just support and clarity. Now I'm engaged!" 

K.P., in D.C.

A LIFESAVER FOR MY SON! 

"I originally bought the Lasting Love Academy for my daughters, but your words of wisdom were a tender mercy for my son at a difficult time. It's hard to break free from the effects of a manipulative relationship. Your red flags of a lack of empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility were a lifesaver. From one mother to another, thanks!"  

Joan, California

MARRIED WITH CHILDREN

"I was 37 years old, never married, and unable to commit to my girlfriend of two years. Then I heard Alisa's podcast on "Why We Can't Commit." I reached out and immediately felt at home with her. She guided me through a respectful decision-making process, and instead of pressuring me, she focused on skill development for both moving forward and breaking up. I am now happily married with kids and haven't looked back since. Her advice was life-changing and empowering."

Jeremy

ANSWER TO PRAYER

“I believe Alisa Snell was an answer to my prayers.  She helped me work through many fears and unrealistic expectations.  And I’m now happily married to a wonderful girl, and we have three precious children together.” 

Sam, UT

BACK IN THE GAME

"Alisa helped me navigate the dating world after being out for several decades. She helped me become aware of some potential blind spots and to develop litmus tests to make sure I was ready to move forward. Her coaching helped set the stage for a marriage that has been a great blessing to us. I highly recommend Alisa Snell and the Lasting Love Academy." 

Dave, AZ

NOT JUST FOR OUR WEDDING BUT OUR MARRIAGE 

"I reached out to Alisa seven years ago about couples coaching when my then fiancé and I were struggling with how to communicate effectively with one another. We wanted to learn better tools to help us throughout our marriage and create a strong foundation that would see us through the hard times. 

Seven years later, our marriage is healthy and strong. I honestly can’t count how many times through the years we’ve utilized what we learned during our sessions with Alisa. I wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone looking into relationship coaching." 

Emily H., Boston

ETERNALLY GRATEFUL  

"I'm eternally grateful to have had the opportunity to have Alisa help me and my now husband get over some thinking errors we had about marriage. With her help, we have been married for 8 years and have four wonderful children. Thank you, Alisa!  

Shaylynn, ID