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If you're in a relationship that needs more PASSION, FUN, and SECURITY, you need to know, It's NOT YOU—It's Your Technique! We can CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE! You are not alone!

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Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A. and the Lasting Love Academy have helped thousands of singles, just like you, to date more, create lasting love, and get married.

As we Reveal Your Partner's Hidden Needs (below), you will DEFINITELY find the answers you need to increase the joy and success of your relationship. We want to make it easy for you to start immediately; thus, we've included RED LINKS that will give you access to the techniques and skills taught within the Lasting Love Academy.. 

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Reveal My Partner's Hidden Needs 

 

1. You're both right—neither of you is wrong.

Men and women do not desire to make the other unhappy, but common misunderstandings about their individual needs can lead to distrust of the other's intentions. Both can feel they are right, justified in their actions, and entitled to specific things from their partner. As they grow in resentment, anger, and hurt over their differences or unmet (and often uncommunicated) expectations, they can get trapped in a push and pull pattern of anxious and avoidant behaviors.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you break these patterns and create a secure attachment through communicating and listening to your partner's deeper needs, fears, and feelings. As you grow in your awareness of your partner's perspective, you will see that neither of you is wrong and both are right. From this foundation, you will focus on being effective in the relationship rather than proving your point. You will develop essential tools for solving problems and creating win/win solutions. And in those situations in which one partner is abusive, manipulative, unfaithful, or addicted, you will grow in your confidence about the steps you need to take.

You can have the knowledge and skills you need to be confident and successful!

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2. Men need faith and trust—women need safety and security.

Men and women do not desire to make the other unhappy, but common misunderstandings about their individual needs can lead to distrust of the other's intentions. Both can feel they are right, justified in their actions, and entitled to specific things from their partner. As they grow in resentment, anger, and hurt over their differences or unmet (and often uncommunicated) expectations, they can get trapped in a push and pull pattern of anxious and avoidant behaviors.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you break these patterns and create a secure attachment through communicating and listening to your partner's deeper needs, fears, and feelings. As you grow in your awareness of your partner's perspective, you will see that neither of you is wrong and both are right. From this foundation, you will focus on being effective in the relationship rather than proving your point. You will develop essential tools for solving problems and creating win/win solutions. And in those situations in which one partner is abusive, manipulative, unfaithful, or addicted, you will grow in your confidence about the steps you need to take.

You can have the knowledge and skills you need to be confident and successful!

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3. Men need to feel like a success—women need to feel empowered.

Early in life, men are conditioned to be independent and responsible. They are encouraged to compete, face challenges, succeed, and conquer. Although not all men fit this ideal, they feel better about themselves when they do. This is why men often resist being pushed or driven by others, take pride in doing things their way, are more committed when they want something and pursue it, and are initially defensive when challenged. It's not that men need to have power and control since most men don't want to dominate or suppress others. They just want to be respected, viewed as competent, and feel like a success.

Women like being soft, feminine, and nurturing, but this can be hard in a world where one in three women are victims of sexual assault and stories abound of men who betray, abuse, or abandon women and their children. They want love and marriage but fear to be powerless if they depend on a man, and they worry that they might be better off on their own. This is unfortunate since jerks are in the minority, and the average man is trustworthy, compassionate, and willing to share power and control. These men are drawn to the gentleness of women and feel the most successful in their lives when a woman acts feminine and trusting with them. This does not mean she has to submit or be silent. Men like women who assert their feelings and needs, and they want women to feel confident and empowered in their lives. They just need to know that she sees them as a success and trusts their goodness too.

To help you put to rest your distrust of the opposite sex and fears of depending on each other, the Lasting Love Academy will help you recognize a partner's empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility (the lack of which would indicate significant warning signs). As you understand the common differences between men and women, trust your partner's overall goodness, and express your needs, you will both feel successful and empowered in your relationship. You will experience the joy, security, strength, and trust that love can bring. You can do this!

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"After 10 years of relationships that all seemed to fizzle at 4-5 months. I felt like I was lying to myself to say it was just because "it wasn't right," so I spent a lot of time and money on counselors/coaches and was still unsatisfied with the vague solutions they offered. After one visit to Alisa, I had more insight into what I needed to change than all the others combined. Now I'm in a long-term relationship. it's miraculously still going strong". E.S.   READ MORE REVIEWS

 4. Men like femininity—women like strength.

Men and women are greatly affected by femininity and masculinity. Men love softness, touch, patience, appreciation, a warm smile, encouragement, curves, and some sensuality. Similarly, women are impressed by strength, protectiveness, trustworthiness, drive, ambition, hard work, good posture, loyalty, self-control, and respect. When men and women offer each other these behaviors, it increases the passion, playfulness, and excitement they feel for the other.

Many singles struggle with acting feminine or masculine because they feel their appearance and mannerisms are too different from the ideal, or they believe those who exude these characteristics are superficial, players, and insincere. This is unfortunate since masculinity and femininity do not need to be flashy or attention-seeking and can have a powerful effect in one-on-one interactions.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you unlock the strength and confidence or softness and femininity that are an inherent part of your human nature. As you find ways to make these techniques your own, you will develop greater enjoyment in their expression and the reactions of your partner.

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MARRIED WITH CHILDREN

"I was 37-years old, never married, and unable to commit to my girlfriend of two years. Then I heard a podcast Alisa did on "Why We Can't Commit." I reached out and immediately felt at home with her. She guided me through a respectful decision-making process, and instead of pressuring me, she focused on skill development for both moving forward and breaking up. I am now happily married with kids, and I haven't looked back since. Her advice was life-changing and empowering".  NO REGRETS — Jeremy  READ MORE SUCCESS STORIES

5. Men want to be needed and appreciate—women need to be wanted and adored.

A man who is not needed and appreciated will question where he belongs and whether his sacrifices matter. He wants to be a hero and make others happy. He does not want to be burdened by unreasonable demands or feel dumped on, but he does want to know others depend on him and his presence would be missed. He resists burdening others, but he knows he needs them too. When a woman responds to his sacrifices with love, affection, appreciation, and fun, he feels she cares about his needs and happiness as well.

Women enjoy nurturing others and often overwhelm themselves with the responsibilities of life and caretaking. Unfortunately, when a woman's life becomes stressful and excessively busy, she can feel resentful that her partner isn't doing more and subsequently question his love for her. She wants to feel wanted, not needed, and be his sweetheart, not taken for granted. When she complains or criticizes him for not being more loving, he usually feels less motivated, understood, and appreciated for what he does. 

The Lasting Love Academy will help you express your needs and pursue your partner's attention in a confident, playful, and attractive way that makes them want you more. You will influence (not manipulate) and depend and rely on each other (without overburdening the other). And when your partner needs to reject you, you'll handle it in a way that makes them want you more.

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"Alisa helped me to assert my needs and feelings in a way that appeared confident and attractive (rather than desperate and needy), and in return, I got more respect, attention, and commitment". — Karen, Chicago READ MORE REVIEWS

6. Men bond through doing activities—women through talking about problems—and both enjoy sharing feelings and ideas.

Men feel physiologically more anxious and distressed during difficult conversations than women feel. This is why they prefer to bond through doing or talking about things and activities. However, women feel emotionally and physiologically distressed when they don't talk about the people and problems that are causing them anxiety (including their partner and the relationship). Although such conversations are less desirable for men, when the discussion becomes elevate to talking about mutual feelings and ideas, they enjoy communication and feel more connected as well.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you solve problems in your relationship and life in a way that increases all three levels of bonding. You will experience more fun, forgive each others' weaknesses, share your feelings and ideas with mutual trust and respect, resolve conflictdevelop greater confidence, and feel gratitude for the lessons you learn and the closeness your gain.

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FEAR OF MISSING OUT

"My boyfriend was a great guy, but I still felt attracted to other men and worried I might find someone better. Alisa helped me to recognize the fears and thinking errors that were haunting me and gave me the skills to confront and resolve them. I didn't feel pressure, just support and clarity. Now I'm engaged!— K.P. in D.C.  READY MORE SUCCESS STORIES

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Alisa Goodwin Snell. M.A.

Alisa spent decades as a Marriage and Family Therapist and became the Nation's #1 Dating and Relationship Strategist. She's the author of 7 books for singles and the creator of the wildly successful Lasting Love Academy courses. Her expertise and strategies have resulted in THOUSANDS of SINGLES dating more, finding love, and getting married! But don't take our word for it. Discover What Others Are Saying and read Customer Reviews.

In all of Alisa's experience, she's never found someone’s situation so hopeless that they couldn’t be helped by the unique techniques she teaches.

You don't have to navigate your dating and relationship challenges alone! Alisa's got you covered. The skills you need are within your reach, and she can help you overcome every challenge in your way. 

After doing a thorough assessment of your history, attachment patterns, fears, and needs, Alisa will expertly craft a Lasting Love Action Plan to fit your unique situation, complete with ongoing strategy sessions, problem-solving, and support during your Lasting Love Journey. Singles achieve greater success, confidence, and results when they have the support they need through every stage of the process.

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