I'M NOT DATING

If you're not dating the people you want,, you need to know, It's NOT YOU—It's Your Technique! We can CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE! You are not alone!

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Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A. and the Lasting Love Academy have helped thousands of singles, just like you, to date more, create lasting love, and get married.

As you read the 10 Reasons You're Not Dating the People You Want (below), you will DEFINITELY find your situation and needs among the problems and solutions described. We want to make it easy for you to start immediately; thus, we've included RED LINKS that will give you access to the techniques and skills you need to transform your dating and relationship challenges. 

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10 REASONS YOU'RE NOT DATING THE PEOPLE YOU WANT

1. You don't know what to do.

Like many singles, you may feel unsure how to flirt, pursuestart conversations, or ask for a number. You're not sure how to use dating apps and websites, or you have bad experiences. When you meet someone you're excited about, instead of seizing the moment and acting with playful confidence, you overthink things and let your fears get in the way.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you handle rejection well. You will appear more desirable and discover that meeting new singles can be fun and exciting. 

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Don't wait any longer. Beyond expectations!

"Alisa put me at ease instantly, despite my fears. Warm, genuine, empathetic, insightful and experienced... The abundance of materials she makes available, her kindness, and the time she spends make every penny worth it". — SO GRATEFUL! — C.F.  READ MORE REVIEWS

2. You can't find desirable singles to date.

Like many people, you may struggle to find someone to date because you: fail to notice other singles during your daily activities, are not going where singles are (including social events and online or dating apps), don't take action when with someone you like, are easily turned off by other's imperfections, or quickly give up after brief spurts of effort.

It's not you—It's your technique!

As the Lasting Love Academy helps you to confront and change your ineffective beliefs and dating behaviors, it will become easier to approach singles in your everyday life, on social media, through dating apps, and at events. You will seize the moment, have fun, appear confident, and connect meaningfully with others.

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IT REALLY WORKS! 

"Alisa is amazing! She gives you homework, follows up, and cares. That's exactly why I'm in the relationship I am today, and with a more secure attachment than I could have dreamed of".  — A.B.  READ MORE REVIEWS

3. You get friend zoned.

Like other singles, you may struggle to get attention because you fall into the too-nice or just-friends trap and you don't leave them wanting more.

The Lasting Love Academy will teach you how to get and keep their attention, secure others investment, and avoid common dating traps, making you more desirable. 

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4. You experience frequent rejection.

You, like other singles, may struggle to get attention because you aren't making people feel great, you're trying to date singles who are more attractive and accomplished than you, or you're misreading social behavior.  

The Lasting Love Academy will help you make an unforgettable impression, improve your level of attractiveness, understand social rules, and handle rejection in a way that makes others want you more. You can develop these skills, not to be with the best (which contributes to many thinking errors and attachment issues), but to be with someone who is the best for you

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INSPIRING!

"Alisa helped me to [assert my needs and feelings] in a way that appeared confident and attractive (rather than desperate and needy) and in return I got more respect, attention, and commitment". — Karen, Chicago READ MORE SUCCESS STORIES

5. You don't feel excited about the people you date.

Like many singles, you may struggle to feel excited about those you date and don't know why. This can cause you to act passively when dating and, once in a relationship, to feel consumed with doubts or worries about settling. Even when your partner is amazing, you believe you shouldn't commit if you don't feel the excitement you expect.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you understand the anxious and avoidant attachments patterns and how anxiety, thinking errors, pressure, and situational triggers drive you to disconnect; thus, you will see that the problem isn't you or your dating partners, but these underlying forces. Once you confront and change them, you will experience the rewarding and exciting emotions you desire. Creating a secure attachment is a skill that you can learn.

Like other singles, you may struggle to get attention because you fall into the too-nice or just-friends trap and you don't leave them wanting more.

The Lasting Love Academy will teach you how to get and keep their attention, secure others investment, and avoid common dating traps, making you more desirable. 

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6. You date a lot but keep looking for someone better.

Like some singles, dating may not be a problem for you. Instead, you struggle with a fear of missing out and a compulsive need to keep your options open. You can't help noticing attractive, confident, talented, educated, fun, or exciting singles and couples, and you worry about missing out on something better than your current option. Your desire to be with the best keeps you window shopping and browsing through social media, dating apps, and singles events, even when dating someone with whom you're initially excited. 

Your primary interest in dating advice may be to up your game so you can date those you desire most. However, the Lasting Love Academy will help you achieve more than just this. You can feel more confident, make better decisions, experience more commitment, create deeper connections, and feel more passion for your partner. 

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MARRIED WITH CHILDREN

"I was 37-years old, never married, and unable to commit to my girlfriend of two years. Then I heard a podcast Alisa did on "Why We Can't Commit." I reached out and immediately felt at home with her. She guided me through a respectful decision-making process, and instead of pressuring me, she focused on skill development for both moving forward and breaking up. I am now happily married with kids, and I haven't looked back since. Her advice was life-changing and empowering".  NO REGRETS — Jeremy  READ MORE SUCCESS STORIES

7. You can't keep someone's interest beyond the first few dates.

Like many singles, you can get dates but struggle to get into a relationship. You don't know what you're doing that turns others off or if your issues are too much to handle. Just as frequently, you reject men or women too, but you tend to obsess about the people who are rejecting you.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you navigate the early stages of dating and avoid the common dating traps and thinking errors that are driving others away. You will reduce your anxiety and prevent the intensity that can cause too much pressure. You can have a secure foundation that makes you more desirable and trust that others will meet your needs

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8. You keep attracting and dating the wrong types of people.

Although you desire a secure attachment, you may find yourself drawn to those singles who are the least capable of providing one. Your vulnerability to those who lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, beat, and abuse substances can be changed. You do not need to tolerate the lack of commitment that those in the good-for-now and too-nice traps experience.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you identify the early warning signs of the abusive and manipulative in three dates or less; thus, preventing a bad relationship before it begins. As you learn to confront your fears and insecurities and express your feelings and needs, you will be able to walk away with confidence if others don't respond.

You no longer need to give the best of you to those who don't invest in you. After all, it is infinitely better to be happily single than miserably married to someone who lacks empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility

As you break the bad-boy and toxic-girl habit, you will begin to enjoy healthy chemistry with someone who values and invests in your happiness. 

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LIFE SAVER FOR MY SON!

"I originally bought your book for my daughters, but your words of wisdom were a 'tender mercy' for my son, at a very difficult time in his life. It's hard to break free from the effect of a manipulative relationship. Your book was a life saver". From one mother to another, thanks! — Joan (California)  READ MORE SUCCESS STORIES

9. You unknowingly push others away.

Many singles are told that others don't pursue them because their accomplishments are too intimidating. Rarely is this the case. Most often, they are sending push away or stalemate message rather than clear invitations for closeness.

Thus, you may think you are doing your part when you are actually being too cool, distant, busy, or passive and leaving the other person to make up the difference. This makes them question your interest. The real cause may be that you are shy, fear being vulnerable, or don't want to appear needy, but that isn't how they see it. Your lack of interaction and failure to make them feel great makes them uncomfortable, and so they don't flirt with or pursue you.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you make your interest known in a confident, warm, and engaging way that encourages others to participate and reciprocate. Knowing the best way to play your role will not only get you more dates but give you greater confidence while also showing the vulnerability and empathy that are required to nurture relationships. 

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10. You doubt yourself, the opposite sex, relationships, and marriage. You fear nothing will make a difference for you.

All singles feel despair at times. Others feel it chronically. Sometimes this is caused by depression, anxiety, grief, or trauma. However, when you give up hope, it shows in your behaviors, words, body language, texts, and conversations, which in turn repels others, giving you more reasons to distrust them and doubt your ability to be loved.

It's natural to focus on how the opposite sex and dating should be different, and you are right: it's not fair, and dating shouldn't be so complicated. Nevertheless, you need to decide if you want to be right or effective.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you trust yourself, others, and the goodness of relationships. In time you will believe that it's NOT YOU—it's your technique and you can get the same results as other singles if you apply what you know and consistently take action

Love is a choice! And lasting love is a skill you can develop. You are not the exception to this rule.

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RELATIONSHIP BREAK THROUGH FOR ME!

"After 10 years of relationships that all seemed to fizzle at 4-5 months. I felt like I was lying to myself to say it was just because "it wasn't right," so I spent a lot of time and money on counselors/coaches and was still unsatisfied with the vague solutions they offered. After one visit to Alisa, I had more insight into what I needed to change than all the others combined. Now I'm in a long-term relationship. it's miraculously still going strong". E.S.   READ MORE REVIEWS

About our LASTING LOVE EXPERTS

THE Nation's #1 DATING & RELATIONSHIP STRATEGIST

Alisa Goodwin Snell. M.A.

Alisa spent decades as a Marriage and Family Therapist and became the Nation's #1 Dating and Relationship Strategist. She's the author of 7 books for singles and the creator of the wildly successful Lasting Love Academy courses. Her expertise and strategies have resulted in THOUSANDS of SINGLES dating more, finding love, and getting married! But don't take our word for it. Discover What Others Are Saying and read Customer Reviews,

In all of Alisa's experience, she's never found someone’s situation so hopeless that they couldn’t be helped by the unique techniques she teaches.

You don't have to navigate your dating and relationship challenges alone! Alisa's got you covered. The skills you need are within her reach, and she can help you overcome every challenge in your way.

After doing a thorough assessment of your history, attachment patterns, fears, and needs, Alisa will expertly craft a Lasting Love Action Plan to fit your unique situation, complete with ongoing strategy sessions, problem-solving, and support during your Lasting Love Journey. Singles achieve greater success, confidence, and results when they have the support they need through every stage of the process.

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CERTIFIED LASTING LOVE STRATEGIST

Dave Allen, M. Ed. 

With a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology, a Masters Degree in Education, and a successful educational consulting company under his belt, Dave decided to turn his passion for helping singles (having been one for 38 years before marrying his beautiful wife) into a thriving coaching practice. After researching other coaching programs and their curriculum, he determined that the Lasting Love Academy is unparalleled in its educational foundation and successful relationship outcomes.

Determined to learn from the best, Dave spent the next two years rigorously training under the direct tutelage of Alisa Goodwin Snell. His certification as a Lasting Love Strategist is a statement of his excellence and mastery in addressing the diverse needs of singles as he guides them to overcome their thinking errors and fears and develop thriving, loving relationships.

Located in Mesa Arizona, Dave is transforming the lives of singles throughout the US.

Don't delay. Begin your journey of Lasting Love today! 

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Let's get your Personalized Lasting Love Action Plan started so you can get the support and guidance you need to succeed, ALL of the Lasting Love Packages include STRATEGY SESSIONS with The Nation's #1 Dating & Relationship Strategist, Alisa Goodwin Snell M.A. Take a quick moment to SCHEDULE Your Intake Assessment with her. Choose a phone call or live session at our Salt Lake City office.

   

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