I'M BEING UNAPPRECIATED OR MISTREATED

If others are NOT treating you with the RESPECT and INVESTMENT you DESERVE, you need to know, It's NOT YOU—It's Your Technique! We can CHANGE YOUR LOVE LIFE! You are not alone!

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Alisa Goodwin Snell, M.A. and the Lasting Love Academy have helped thousands of singles, just like you, to date more, create lasting love, and get married.

As you learn about the 5 Common Dating Traps (below), you will DEFINITELY find your situation and needs among the problems and solutions described. We want to make it easy for you to start immediately; thus, we've included RED LINKS that will give you access to the techniques and skills you need to transform your dating and relationship challenges. 

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THE 5 COMMON DATING TRAPS 

 

1. The Hanging-Out Trap

If you spend more time hanging out than dating, you may be sabotaging other's romantic interest in you. Arriving early, staying late, and consistently being at the same social events makes getting to know you too easy and doesn't require the real sacrifice or investment that would help others appreciate you. Always being available makes potential dates less curious about you and more excited about newcomers. When you don't touch anyone (or touch everyone) at an event, no one feels special or unique. Additionally, dressing frumpy, not styling your hair or beard, or failing to give attention to small details like jewelry, cologne, and stylish shoes, makes others question your social awareness, self-respect, or interest in attracting others. You may believe that being casual and fun is the best way to make someone like you, but acting like a pal rarely creates the intrigue and passion that confidence and femininity or masculinity bring. This is especially true when you use poor posture, make self-deprecating comments, apologize excessively, or talk negatively about your life or others. 

So, if the highlight of your month is a singles activity that usually ends disappointingly, it's time to change your technique and step up your efforts. You can do this! The Lasting Love Academy will help you up your gamemake a great first impressionbuild a meaningful connection through simple touchleave others wanting more, and encourage one-on-one contact and dates. You can get the attention and investment you desire from the opposite sex.

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2. The Just-Friends Trap 

If you have a crush on a friend, you may wonder if they feel the same and whether a romantic relationship could be possible. Take this self-test to discover if you are Just Friends or More.

  1. Does the person you're crushing on talk about those they like and are dating? Yes/No
  2. Do they rarely touch you in romantic ways (i.e., hold your hand, snuggle close during a hug or movie, or kiss you)? Yes/No
  3. Do they ask who you're dating, encourage your interest in others, or set you up with their friends? Yes/No
  4. Do they invite you to group activities and openly flirt with others in front of you? Yes/No
  5. Do they ask you to set them up with your friends? Yes/No

If you answered yes to three or more questions, then they only see you as a friend, and it's unlikely they will ever feel differently (this is especially true for men). They are either not attracted to you, see you as less confident, or are looking for qualities that you don't possess. 

The Lasting Love Academy will help you take steps to become something more by helping you up your gamebecome more exciting, and increase their affection and investment. And if they don't respond, you will move on with confidence rather than letting their friendship hold you back from the attention, affection, and love you deserve.

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IT REALLY WORKS! 

"Alisa is amazing! She gives you homework, follows up, and cares. That's exactly why I'm in the relationship I am today, and with a more secure attachment than I could have dreamed of".  — A.B.  READ MORE REVIEWS

3. The Too-Nice Trap

If you wonder whether you're too nice and why this is a problem, take this self-test to find out.

  1. Do you act warm, kind, thoughtful, curious, and complimentary?  Yes/No

  2. Do you frequently say yes, volunteer for projects, anticipate others' needs, or do things to please even when it's not in your best interest to do so?  Yes/No

  3. Do you act okay when others' back out of plans, arrive excessively late, break promises, don't pay you back, or treat you with disrespect?  Yes/No

  4. Do you struggle to express your feelings, needs, opinions, or say no because you don't know how, you doubt yourself, or you fear others' reactions?  Yes/No

  5. Do others tell you that you're too nice and need to stand up for yourself?  Yes/No

  6. Do you deny your feelings (resentment, anger, frustration) even when others ask?  Yes/No

  7. Do you continue with unwanted commitments even when others give you a way out?  Yes/No

If you answered yes to three or more of the above questions, then others probably see you as being too nice and struggle to feel as attracted and excited about you.

The problem isn't being nice, but that you seem less confident. Your difficulty setting boundaries, saying no, or expecting better treatment makes them respect you less, and since they aren't sacrificing for you, they don't feel invested in your happiness. They take for granted that you are okay with how they treat you, and don't worry about your feelings or needs (because you rarely share them). Your eagerness to take care of others attracts those who are more sick, needy, and selfish since it seems you are easy to manipulate.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you face your fearsact with confidenceexpress your needs, and get more investment, excitement, and respect from others. You will confront your thinking errorsavoid your anxious attachment pattern, and secure more commitment from those you date. After all, it's not you—it's your technique! and you're worth their investment.

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"Alisa helped me to [assert my needs and feelings] in a way that appeared confident and attractive (rather than desperate and needy), and in return, I got more respect, attention, and commitment". — Karen, Chicago READ MORE REVIEWS

4. The Good-For-Now Trap

If you're struggling to get a commitment from someone you like and worry that they're just using you, take this self-test to discover the truth.

  1. Does your dating partner call you at the last minute to hang out, and only after their other weekend plans fall through? Yes/No
  2. Do they rarely pay for your dinner and activities but ask you to pay for them (using varies excuses or promises that they don't keep)? Yes/No
  3. Do they insist on being free to date others, yet they contact you several times a day, spend most of their time with you, and ask you to do things that only boy or girlfriends would do (i.e., they act sexually with you, ask for help with their bills or kids, or stay the night)? Yes/No
  4. Do they say you're amazing, tell you how much you mean to them, or express that they love you, but they're actions don't match their words (i.e., they have secret relationships, take trips without you, remain active on dating apps, lie to you about what they're doing)? Yes/No
  5. Do they keep you a secret from their friends, family, and co-workers, act cool toward you when in public, and resist taking you to social events? Yes/No

If you answered yes to two or more of the questions above, then you are probably in the good-for-now trap. They like you and what you do for them (i.e., they're using you), but they do not respect or value you enough to commit. They don't want to lose you, because you're convenient, useful, and make them feel good, but they'd quickly jump for something better if it presented itself. 

The Lasting Love Academy will help you expect more and, therefore, get more. You will lovingly express your feelings and needs in a way that is friendly to the male and female psychology, support them in taking responsibility (instead of fixing their problems), act with more faith in yourself, get more attention, affection, and commitment, and increase your odds for a secure relationship. If your efforts don't change the relationship, you will feel confident about what this means and walk away, knowing that others will love and invest in you because you're worth it.

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RELATIONSHIP BREAK THROUGH FOR ME!

"After 10 years of relationships that all seemed to fizzle at 4-5 months. I felt like I was lying to myself to say it was just because "it wasn't right," so I spent a lot of time and money on counselors/coaches and was still unsatisfied with the vague solutions they offered. After one visit to Alisa, I had more insight into what I needed to change than all the others combined. Now I'm in a long-term relationship. it's miraculously still going strong". E.S.   READ MORE REVIEWS

5. The Over-Responsible / Irresponsible (abusive and manipulative) Trap 

If you are in the painful and devastating position of loving someone who is unfaithful, emotionally or physically abusive, or drug, alcohol, and sexually addicted, then you need to understand how being over-responsible attracts people who are more irresponsible. Their issues with empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility are big contributors to their problems. By holding them more accountable, setting better boundaries, and only doing your part (rather than fixing their problems for them), you increase the possibility of real change. The Lasting Love Academy can help you, but it needs to be secondary to counseling or crisis intervention. 

If you have experienced addicted, abusive, and manipulative relationships in your past (or within your family), then you need to understand how such relationships make you more attracted to toxic people and blind to the warning signs in their words and behaviors. The Lasting Love Academy will help you confront your relationship patterns and identify the addicted, abusive, unfaithful, and personality disordered as early as three dates or less. You can change your vulnerabilities to manipulation and grow in your attraction to good men and loving, stable women.

If you are in the early stages of dating or a relationship and want to prevent an addicted, abusive, or manipulative experience, the Lasting Love Academy will help you identify early warning signs. You will confront your fears and thinking errorsidentify what you need in a partnerunderstand the male and female psychology, and develop skills for all five stages of the dating process from getting a date to becoming exclusivecreating a secure attachment, and solving problems as a couple.

The Lasting Love Academy was created to help you be safe, confident, and successful. You CAN have a healthy, loving relationship!

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"I originally bought your book for my daughters, but your words of wisdom were a 'tender mercy' for my son, at a very difficult time in his life. It's hard to break free from the effect of a manipulative relationship. Your book was a life saver". From one mother to another, thanks! — Joan (California)  READ MORE SUCCESS STORIES

About our LASTING LOVE EXPERTS

THE Nation's #1 DATING & RELATIONSHIP STRATEGIST

Alisa Goodwin Snell. M.A.

Alisa spent decades as a Marriage and Family Therapist and became the Nation's #1 Dating and Relationship Strategist. She's the author of 7 books for singles and the creator of the wildly successful Lasting Love Academy courses. Her expertise and strategies have resulted in THOUSANDS of SINGLES dating more, finding love, and getting married! But don't take our word for it. Discover What Others Are Saying and read Customer Reviews.

In all of Alisa's experience, she's never found someone’s situation so hopeless that they couldn’t be helped by the unique techniques she teaches.

You don't have to navigate your dating and relationship challenges alone! Alisa's got you covered. The skills you need are within your reach, and she can help you overcome every challenge in your way. 

After doing a thorough assessment of your history, attachment patterns, fears, and needs, Alisa will expertly craft a Lasting Love Action Plan to fit your unique situation, complete with ongoing strategy sessions, problem-solving, and support during your Lasting Love Journey. Singles achieve greater success, confidence, and results when they have the support they need through every stage of the process.

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