If you get attached too quickly, worry about keeping a date's attention, look for hidden meaning in conversations or texts, and fear to do something wrong, then you have an anxious attachment. 

The Lasting Love Academy will help you confront your fears and anxieties, develop a secure foundation, make peace with your imperfections, act with more confidence, and get more commitment and affection from your partner. 

You are meant to love and be loved and can obtain the commitment and investment you desire from others. 

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2. You have an avoidant attachment style that makes you feel doubt and disconnection.

If you feel less attraction for your partner, worry about their flaws, fear missing out on something better, or experience indifference even when they're amazing, then you have an avoidant attachment.

The Lasting Love Academy will reveal what's driving your disconnection and irritation in relationships, so you can increase your passion, take the pressure off, and have more fun. Making decisions will be easier. Increasing commitment and deepening your connection will feel less stressful, and your capacity to enjoy lasting love will grow step-by-step.

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3. You're too nice and accommodating, so others undervalue you.

If you get stuck in the just-friends or good-for-now trap and are regularly told that you're too nice, then you need to secure more investment from others and speak up when they take you for granted. You don't need to give the best of you to those who don't invest in you, and having better boundaries will make others respect you.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you feel and act secure, express your needs with confidence, expose those who are bad news, avoid common dating traps, and get more commitment, affection, and investment from others. 

The sooner you break these bad habits, the more successful you will be in other areas of life too. Instead of taking care of others (who need to resolve their own problems), you will invest in your success and happiness. And if they truly care about you, they will support and encourage your efforts and respond to your needs. 

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4. You're unknowingly pushing your partner away.

If you struggle to maintain the attention of those you date, it is likely that you're sending push away or stalemate messages instead of clear invitations for closeness. Rather than effectively encouraging others, you're being too cool, distant, or busy, and leaving them to question your interest. The truth may be that you are shy, fear being vulnerable, or don't want to appear needy, but that isn't how they see it. Your failure to make them feel great makes them uncomfortable, and so they lose interest.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you express your interest in a confident, warm, and engaging way that encourages their investment. You will learn how to be vulnerable and give the empathy that is needed for a good relationship, all while exercising the discretion and boundaries that expose bad relationships. Knowing the best way to play your role will not only result in more relationships but greater confidence. 

As you learn to be available, responsive, and emotionally engaged, you will create secure attachments. As you communicate with consistent invitations for closeness, others will be drawn to you and act similarly. Not everyone will respond, but healthy skills have a high appeal to those with empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility. 

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5. You believe relationships are only right when they're easy or natural.

If you value being honest, genuine, and authentic, you probably feel a responsibility to listen to, communicate about, and act on your emotions quickly. You don't want to force a relationship and waste your or a date's time. You see a lack of passion as a sign that you're with the wrong partner and believe that a relationship should be natural and easy.

You don't know why you rarely get excited about a potential date or quickly lose attraction and feel less into them. You fear you may be too picky, but you're more afraid of missing out on something better. You don't want to have regrets, and you're trying to be fair to everyone involved.

The Lasting Love Academy will reveal what's unintentionally preventing the passion you desire. As you understand the paradox of authenticity and how to reduce the anxiety, thinking errors, pressure, and situational triggers that are driving you to disconnect, you will feel a greater passion for your partner. The problem isn't their attractiveness, flaws, or weaknesses. As you understand how passiveness makes you feel passionless, you will sacrifice in ways that create the love you need to commit. 

With a reasonable amount of effort, you can overcome the barriers that hold you back from an amazing and passionate relationship and enjoy a lifetime of love!

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6. You date the wrong types of people and get into bad relationships.

If you've been with partners who lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, beat, or abuse substances, you need to discover how and why you attract these relationships. In spite of your love and sacrifices, these individuals are the least likely to love you back. You do not need to tolerate their lack of investment or succumb to the good-for-now and too-nice traps that are wasting your time.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you identify the early warning signs of the abusive and manipulative, confront your fears and insecurities, express your feelings and needs, and confidently walk away when others don't respond. You do not need to give the best of you to those who don't invest in you. After all, it is infinitely better to be happily single than miserably married to someone who lacks empathy, self-control, and personal responsibility. You can break the bad-boy and toxic-girl habit and learn to enjoy healthy chemistry with someone who values and invests in your happiness.

Lasting love isn't something that randomly happens for some and not others. It is created by those who choose good partners and develop the skills needed to maintain relationships. Thus, you can experience it too. 

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7. You have nagging doubts but don't break up, hoping your partner will do it instead.

If you're with someone you respect but aren't sure you want to be with, then you're probably staying because you think you should, and as such you're reacting to the relationship rather than choosing it. 

You may doubt your feelings, worry about possible issues, long for the passion you think others have, or obsess over past relationships, but you rarely share these thoughts. You secretly hope your partner will make the decision for you and end the relationship. Eventually, your lack of action and commitment often result in this outcome. If either of you doubts the decision and reaches back out, you tend to get stuck in an off-and-on-again pattern that lasts for months or years.  

The Lasting Love Academy will expose the common thinking errors that are driving your doubts, indecision, and passivity so that you can break this cycle. As a decision making and skill development model, it will help you decide whether to stay or go. And when you do advance to marriage, it will be with the confidence and passion you desire. 

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8. You unintentionally appear critical or manipulative, thus repelling relationships.

If you comment on what your date is doing wrong, talk negatively about your exes, express long-standing resentments over other's mistreatment, or justify, rationalize, and minimize your past behaviors, you will seem critical or manipulative.

Not only are these things unattractive, but they make you seem difficult to please. Most of the time, this is due to poor dating and relationship techniques; however, it is also a reminder that you have issues you need to resolve more effectively.

The Lasting Love Academy will help you forgive yourself and others, take responsibility for your healing, build a healthy circle of trust, set better boundaries with those who have mistreated you, improve your overall level of happiness, confront passive and aggressive behaviors while warmly influencing others to use better communication skills, address toxic communication, and negotiate win/win solutions. Learning and applying these skills will benefit all your relationships and serve you well throughout your life.

Addressing issues with warmth and directness will help you feel greater self-respect and others will be drawn to you as well. 

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9. You unconsciously sabotage your relationships.

If you suffer in silence rather than confronting issues and asserting your needs, then you will eventually withdraw, act passive, become aggressive, engage in secretive behavior, or resent your partner. This pattern is typical in those with both anxious and avoidant attachment styles. The anxiously attached may cling to their partner due to their dependence on the other, or the avoidantly attached may resist commitment, but in both cases, they fear and distrust the other, which often results in one of them sabotaging the relationship.

The Lasting Love Academy will teach you how to assert your feelings and needs in a confident, warm, and clear way that facilitates a secure attachment, greater trust, and deeper passion for your partner. If they fail to respond, you will know what this means and how to react. You will feel confident about your communication and conflict resolution skills and develop greater control over your destructive behaviors so that you can maintain long-term relationships. 

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10. You prematurely focus on problems, stealing the fun from your relationships.

If you prematurely focus on your date's flaws, pressure your partner for commitment, or worry about future relationship problems, your interactions will become stressful rather than fun.

Love is about connection, not perfection. The Lasting Love Academy will increase your ability to live a real life, with a real person, and offer a real love. You will learn to identify warning signs, assess compatibility, create a secure attachment, and handle problems as they occur, all while having fun.

As you focus on the skills taught in each of the five stages of dating, you will feel more confident, not worry about later stages, and enjoy the stage you're in. Your relationship will progress because they make sense and give you joy. And you will trust the future because you have the skills you need to succeed. 

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Alisa Goodwin Snell. M.A.

Alisa spent decades as a Marriage and Family Therapist and became the Nation's #1 Dating and Relationship Strategist. She's the author of 7 books for singles and the creator of the wildly successful Lasting Love Academy courses. Her expertise and strategies have resulted in THOUSANDS of SINGLES dating more, finding love, and getting married! But don't take our word for it. Discover What Others Are Saying and read Customer Reviews.

In all of Alisa's experience, she's never found someone’s situation so hopeless that they couldn’t be helped by the unique techniques she teaches.

You don't have to navigate your dating and relationship challenges alone! Alisa's got you covered. The skills you need are within your reach, and she can help you overcome every challenge in your way. 

After doing a thorough assessment of your history, attachment patterns, fears, and needs, Alisa will expertly craft a Lasting Love Action Plan to fit your unique situation, complete with ongoing strategy sessions, problem-solving, and support during your Lasting Love Journey. Singles achieve greater success, confidence, and results when they have the support they need through every stage of the process.

As the Nation's #1 Dating and Relationship Strategist, her services are in great demand. Consequently, she REQUIRES A HIGHER COMMITMENT LEVEL (i.e. an All-In or All-Access Program). If you are ready for Lasting Love, SCHEDULE NOW!

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