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TOP 20 MOST COMMON QUESTIONS
1. How do I start a conversation?
Confidently engage others while avoiding awkward topics, reading their body language, and enjoying the moment.
2. How do I know if I’m making others uncomfortable?
Develop a good personal attitude, look for social cues, then relax and enjoy the moment.
3. How can I make my interest known without looking desperate or weird?
Manage common dating traps in ways that encourage excitement and lead to potential numbers, dates, and meaningful connections.
4. How can I tell if someone is interested in me?
Engage in behaviors that build excitement, chemistry, and fun while gauging the other person's level of interest.
5. How can I get more attention and dates from dating apps?
Essential steps for finding and attracting your match when using dating apps and social media.
6. How do I break into social groups without looking awkward?
Manage social anxiety, make more friends, and attract the people you really want.
7. How soon should I ask for or give my number?
Avoid losing their interest, improve your connections, and make a lasting impression.
8. How do I respond to weird texts, ghosting, or rejection?
Improve your text exchanges, understand their behavior, and look confident when giving or receiving rejection.
9. How soon do I ask for (or encourage) a date (and how)?
Communicate your desire to have fun and spend more time together.
10. How do I reject someone (and how should I handle rejection)?
Be warm, engaging, confident, and desirable while facing rejection and increasing their respect.
11. After a date, how soon should I message, respond, or ask for another date?
Time and pace communication and dates while focusing on fun (not pressure).
12. What are the most common dating mistakes that I should avoid (and how)?
Avoid the hanging out, too nice, good-for-now, and just friends traps by leaving them wanting more, creating chemistry, and ensuring mutual investment.
13. Why am I not getting more second dates? What am I doing wrong?
Increase your desirability and make others feel great through embracing your masculine and feminine energy.
14. People say I’m too nice or just a friend. What am I doing wrong?
Understand the value of not giving the best of you to those who don't invest in you, confronting your fears, and setting healthy expectations.
15. Relative to the person I'm dating, am I missing red flags or maybe settling?
Don't miss these critical warning signs while also building confidence in the right partner for you.
16. I’m dating someone who is great. Why am I not feeling what I should?
Understand the effects of anxious and avoidant attachment issues so you can manage them while inviting real connections.
17. When should I stay, give it more time, try harder, or walk away?
Engage in a decision-making process that leaves you without regret or doubts.
18. I fear missing out on something better. Others say I'm too picky? How can I prevent wasting my time and theirs?
Be sure to: create a Top-Ten List of what you need (as well as the issues you can live with, change your behavior to be inviting and consistent, choose more faith and resilience instead of fear, and confront your thinking errors and anxiety because lasting love is found through connection, not perfection.
19. Is it a bad idea for women to take the lead when asking men out, paying, or pursuing relationships? If so, why?
Feel empowered, confident, feminine, and desirable while encouraging his meaningful investment and utilizing your understanding of the male psychology.
20. I feel anxious. Does this mean something is wrong, or the person is not the one?
Understand how anxious or avoidant feelings can cause small doubts in otherwise good relationships that are free from major red flags.
You are not alone!
Many singles feel exhausted by dating, frustrated by missed connections, and confused about why relationships don’t seem to move forward even when they are trying hard, staying hopeful, and holding on to their standards. You can do this!
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Why trust us?
Our dating and relationship advice and coaching are grounded in Alisa Goodwin Snell's:
- 17 years as a Marriage and Family Therapist
- 20 years as a Dating and Relationship Strategist
- Multiple books, including Single? It's Not You. It's Your Technique! for men and women
- Hundreds of TV and radio appearances