Decision Tree 1: dating

Which of the following best describes your situation?

Do these challenges describe your situation?

Are you new to dating (due to being young, a breakup, death, divorce, or extended hiatus)?
Do you feel lonely, isolated, socially anxious, or unsure of how to break into groups, make friends, or connect more meaningfully with others?
Do others treat you like you're just a friend, good for now, or too nice?
Do you feel anxious about the best way to handle dating apps, asking for or giving a number, texting, phone calls, dates, and rejection?
Do you need help timing and pace dates (to prevent looking overly anxious or too indifferent)?
Are you turned off by those who want you, but also unable to date the people you want?
Do you experience anxiety, depression, fear, or unmanageable doubts when dating and building relationships?
Do you struggle with starting and maintaining conversations or creating deeper connections?

Do these challenges describe your situation?

Can you get dates easily, but they rarely result in a relationship?
Are you in a just-friends situation that you want to take to the next level?
Do you date amazing people, but you rarely feel the chemistry or excitement you desire?
Do you fear getting stuck in a relationship and missing out on something better?
Do you fear that a dating partner is taking you for granted, sending mixed messages, providing the bare minimum, or dragging the relationship on (rather than making a decision)?
Do you fear being in an abusive, manipulative, addicted, dishonest, or unfaithful relationship?
Do you fear communicating your needs and wants because it will make you appear needy or trigger rejection?
Do you want (to feel or receive) more commitment, investment, excitement, and affection in your relationships?
Do you want better communication, conflict resolution, and relationship skills?

Select an answer above to proceed to your next question.