heterosexual male

heterosexual female

LGBTQ+

young adult (18 - 30)

adult (30 - 45)

middle aged (45 - 60)

older adult (60+)

never married / no significant relationships

never married / at least one long-term relationship

never married / broken engagements

engaged

divorced

widowed

married (twice or more) and single again

depressed or anxious about being single / feel lonely / need hope

not dating / don't know what I'm doing wrong / need ideas and techniques

it's time / I'm ready / want to settle down

recent break-up / bad experience / divorce

frequent rejection / can't get commitment / short relationships

stuck in too-nice / just friend / hanging out traps

recent trauma from abuse / betrayal / dishonesty / manipulation / a partner's drug, alcohol, or sexual addiction

can't commit / not feeling what I think I should / always the one breaking up

anxiety / doubts / worried what my partner is feeling / can't get them to commit

poor communication / relationship doubts / frequent conflict

drama / fights / turmoil / emotional instability

excessive anxiety about engagement / marriage / the future / missing out on something better

marital problems / want to improve our relationship

considering divorce or separation / needing help

concerned about dating long-distance / kids - or - financial / career / faith / age / step-parenting / cultural / compatibility issues

I want to be more social, confident, and successful at events.

I want to get better results from dating apps.

I want to date more and date better people.

I'm often stuck in the good-for-now, just-friends, or too-nice trap, and I need to break the cycle.

I want to avoid people and relationships that are addicted, toxic, abusive, manipulative, dishonest, unfaithful, and exploiting.

I want to have more faith in myself, others, the opposite sex, my future, relationships, and marriage.

I want to understand myself better, what's holding me back from the relationships I desire, and what I can do to get better results.

I want to get more repeat dates and progress to a committed relationship

I want to feel more secure instead of anxious, worried, and vulnerable when dating or in relationships.

I want to feel more passion, connection, excitement, and joy in my relationships.

I need to decide if I should stay or leave my relationship. I want to feel more confident about my choice and why I'm making it.

I want others (or a specific person) to want, pursue, respond, and invest in me and a relationship.

I want to know how to handle common dating, texting, and communication challenges.

I want to be more desirable, avoid rejection, and date more attractive people.

I want to enjoy dating and relationships more. I want to have fun and feel more connected.

I want more commitment from my partner.

I need to know how to date when I or the other person has kids.

I'm older and newly single, so I want to understand how to date men or women my age.

I need help with long-distance dating.

I want to feel more confident, relaxed, and desirable.

I want to solve conflict and communication problems more effectively.

I want to have better conversations, feel more connected, and enjoy my relationships more.

physical affection / sex

companionship / connection / relieve loneliness

family life / children

fulfillment / purpose / meaning

financial stability / security

friendship / understanding / support

romance / passion / excitement

enjoy entertainment / travel / hobbies together

religious / spiritual / values

love / empathy / kindness / compassion

strong need / desire / infatuation / longing

duty / obligation / responsibility / moral principle

fear of missing out / being left behind / others are doing it / necessity

playfulness / humor / joy / fun

communication / conflict resolution / work well together

friends / family / support of others in your situation

goal setting / accountability / reporting progress / coaching

rewards / positive reinforcement / success

figuring it out on my own / self reflection / reading books

none of the above / happens on its own

I'm just checking this out, so I'm unsure if I'm ready to engage fully yet.

I'm ready to learn more to improve myself and my relationship skills.

I would like group or community support from others who are in similar situations as mine.

I'm all in and want to learn everything I can.

I would like more than just information. I want coaching and the personalized advice, goal setting, and support it offers?

I'd like all of the above (education, community support, coaching, and lasting love this year).

Did an internet search and found the website or app that way.

Saw an add.

Discovered a social media post, podcast, article, or video.

A friend recommended the Lasting Love Academy.

A friend has done coaching with Alisa Goodwin Snell or a Lasting Love Academy coach.